{"id":1369,"date":"2009-12-11T04:26:18","date_gmt":"2009-12-11T03:26:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/petitesbullesdailleurs\/?p=1369"},"modified":"2024-10-24T08:55:43","modified_gmt":"2024-10-24T06:55:43","slug":"les-maries-de-derawan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/les-maries-de-derawan-20091211\/","title":{"rendered":"The bride and groom of Derawan"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My short stay on the small Indonesian island of Derawan, last July, allowed me to attend no less than two weddings! Two almost identical weddings, with kitsch decoration and pop-guimauve orchestra. More a social obligation, I think, than a real party.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2>A video, two weddings<\/h2>\n<p>In any case, I would not like to get married in Derawan!<\/p>\n<p>You have to dress up as a doll, with hair, make-up and a lot of pomp. Then hold the pose for hours on a throne in a candy pink or electric blue decor. Welcome with a smile all the people of the village who parade on the stage (as they all come to deposit a small ticket in a vase provided for this purpose).<\/p>\n<p>And pretend to appreciate the music of the invited group...<\/p>\n<div class=\"entry-content-asset videofit\">\n<div class=\"jetpack-video-wrapper\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Weddings in Derawan\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/8110488?dnt=1&amp;app_id=122963\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"autoplay; fullscreen; picture-in-picture; clipboard-write\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2>Strange wedding party<\/h2>\n<p>What you don't see on the video are the rows of plastic chairs and boards serving as tables, set up in front of the stage, under a large tarp.<\/p>\n<p>No one is dancing, people have just come and sat there and watched.<\/p>\n<p>Each received a small meal in a cardboard box with a cup of water. Offered by the families of the bride and groom. But no one eats, most will take home their portion of <em>nasi goreng<\/em> (fried rice) and his cupcakes at home.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1492\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1492\" style=\"width: 700px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1003_mariage.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1492\" src=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1003_mariage.jpg\" alt=\"For the guests, the show consists of sitting in a plastic chair watching the bride and groom on the platform ... (Derawan, Borneo, Indonesia, July 2009.)\" width=\"700\" height=\"467\" srcset=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1003_mariage.jpg 700w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1003_mariage-400x267.jpg 400w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1003_mariage-500x334.jpg 500w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1003_mariage-100x66.jpg 100w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1003_mariage-370x247.jpg 370w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1003_mariage-293x195.jpg 293w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1492\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">For the guests, the show consists of sitting on a plastic chair and watching the bride and groom on the stage... (Derawan, Borneo, Indonesia. July 2009.)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Strange wedding party, really. It starts around 9 pm and stops a little before midnight. Not much happens. Rather boring evening... I guess the real wedding ceremony takes place at another time.<\/p>\n<p>Once installed on his plastic chair, everyone remains seated there. We simply wait for our turn to go up on the platform, to greet the bride and groom with a quick handshake, or more warmly depending on the degree of closeness or affection we have with the family.<\/p>\n<p>One does not hesitate to be taken in photograph at their sides. It is obviously part of the appreciated politenesses, with the small bill deposited in the vase.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1489\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1489\" style=\"width: 700px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1408_mariage.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1489\" src=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1408_mariage.jpg\" alt=\"The married &quot;blue&quot;. (Derawan, Borneo, Indonesia, July 2009.)\" width=\"700\" height=\"424\" srcset=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1408_mariage.jpg 700w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1408_mariage-400x242.jpg 400w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1408_mariage-500x303.jpg 500w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1408_mariage-293x177.jpg 293w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1489\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The \"blue\" bride and groom. (Derawan, Borneo, Indonesia, July 2009.)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I resisted the solicitations of a lot of people who wanted to push me towards the stage for the famous photo...<\/p>\n<p>Marjolijn, a young Dutch girl with whom I sympathized, did not miss any opportunity to pose, at each wedding (see photos below).<\/p>\n<p>She tells that <a href=\"http:\/\/penyu.nl\/?p=268\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">on his own blog<\/a> (in English).<\/p>\n<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-1369 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/les-maries-de-derawan-20091211\/mariage-a-derawan-3\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"250\" src=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage-250x250.jpg?wsr\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Marjolijn poses with the bride and groom. Derawan (Borneo, Indonesia). July 2009.\" srcset=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage-250x250.jpg 250w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage-700x700.jpg 700w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage-293x293.jpg 293w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage-390x390.jpg 390w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage-200x200.jpg 200w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage-75x75.jpg 75w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/les-maries-de-derawan-20091211\/mariage-a-derawan-2\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1405_mariage-200x200.jpg?wsr\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Marjolijn poses with the bride and groom. Derawan (Borneo, Indonesia). July 2009.\" srcset=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1405_mariage-200x200.jpg 200w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1405_mariage-293x293.jpg 293w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1405_mariage-75x75.jpg 75w, https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1405_mariage-390x390.jpg 390w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>\ud83d\ude06<\/p>\n<p>Like her, what surprised me the most was the musical entertainment, if I may say so.<\/p>\n<p>Especially that of the second marriage. For recall, we are in Muslim country. I found it very curious to see these three singers come on the stage, overdressed and very short dressed, who started to shake like in a video-clip. Without being pretentious, it was flashy and vulgar.<\/p>\n<p>Admittedly, Islam is rather relaxed on an island like Derawan: not all the women are veiled, far from it, and the girls play volleyball hard every night, bareheaded, in simple Bermuda shorts and tee-shirt. But still, these three chicks on stage didn't fit in with the rest.<\/p>\n<p>\ud83d\ude44<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My short stay on the small Indonesian island of Derawan last July allowed me to attend no less than two weddings! Two almost identical weddings, with kitsch decorations and a pop-guimauve orchestra. <\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1491,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"video","meta":{"tpgb_global_settings":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[111],"tags":[26,48,91,209,332,1650,15,20],"class_list":["post-1369","post","type-post","status-publish","format-video","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-voyage-borneo-malaisie-indonesie-2009","tag-indonesie","tag-video","tag-insolite","tag-derawan","tag-mariage","tag-borneo-indonesie","tag-borneo","tag-ceremonie","post_format-post-format-video"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage.jpg?wsr","tpgb_featured_images":{"full":["https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage.jpg?wsr",700,526,false],"tp-image-grid":["https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage-700x700.jpg?wsr",700,700,true],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage-250x250.jpg?wsr",250,250,true],"medium":["https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage-390x293.jpg?wsr",390,293,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage.jpg?wsr",700,526,false],"large":["https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/12\/IMG_1010_mariage.jpg?wsr",700,526,false],"default":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/wp-content\/plugins\/the-plus-addons-for-block-editor\/assets\/images\/tpgb-placeholder.jpg"},"tpgb_post_meta_info":{"get_date":"11 December 2009","get_modified_date":"24 October 2024","category_list":{"category":[{"term_id":111,"name":"Born\u00e9o [Malaisie et Indon\u00e9sie] - juillet\u00a02009","slug":"voyage-borneo-malaisie-indonesie-2009","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":116,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Voyage d'un mois en Malaisie et Indon\u00e9sie. Au programme : les \u00celes Perhentian sur la c\u00f4te orientale de la p\u00e9ninsule malaisienne, puis Born\u00e9o c\u00f4t\u00e9 malaisien (Mabul et Sipadan) et indon\u00e9sien (archipel de Derawan).","parent":0,"count":24,"filter":"raw","term_order":"38"}],"post_tag":[{"term_id":26,"name":"Indon\u00e9sie","slug":"indonesie","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":26,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"Entre oc\u00e9an Indien et oc\u00e9an Pacifique, au c\u0153ur du <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/au-coeur-du-triangle-de-corail-20160201\/\">Triangle de Corail<\/a>, l'Indon\u00e9sie est \u00e0 mes yeux la plus belle des destinations pour la plong\u00e9e sous-marine. Impossible de se lasser de cet archipel immense, s'\u00e9tirant sur trois fuseaux horaires. Je vous emm\u00e8ne explorer ces fonds d'une richesse extraordinaire, de <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/?tag=bali+plongee\" rel=\"\">Bali<\/a> \u00e0\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/?tag=sulawesi+plongee\" rel=\"\">Sulawesi<\/a>, de <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/?tag=komodo+plongee\" rel=\"\">Komodo<\/a> \u00e0 <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/voyage-plongee-raja-ampat-20130303\/\" rel=\"\">Raja Ampat<\/a>, de <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/?tag=borneo+plongee+indonesie\" rel=\"\">Born\u00e9o<\/a> aux <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/?tag=moluques+plongee\" rel=\"\">Moluques<\/a>...","parent":0,"count":182,"filter":"raw","term_order":"0"},{"term_id":48,"name":"Vid\u00e9o","slug":"video","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":48,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":76,"filter":"raw","term_order":"0"},{"term_id":91,"name":"Insolite","slug":"insolite","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":96,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":53,"filter":"raw","term_order":"0"},{"term_id":209,"name":"Derawan","slug":"derawan","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":214,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":15,"filter":"raw","term_order":"0"},{"term_id":332,"name":"Mariage","slug":"mariage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":337,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":1,"filter":"raw","term_order":"0"},{"term_id":1650,"name":"Born\u00e9o (Indon\u00e9sie)","slug":"borneo-indonesie","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":1655,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":20,"filter":"raw","term_order":"0"},{"term_id":15,"name":"Born\u00e9o","slug":"borneo","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":15,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":39,"filter":"raw","term_order":"0"},{"term_id":20,"name":"C\u00e9r\u00e9monie","slug":"ceremonie","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":20,"taxonomy":"post_tag","description":"","parent":0,"count":12,"filter":"raw","term_order":"0"}]},"author_name":"Corinne Bourbeillon","author_url":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/author\/cbourbeillon\/","author_email":"corinne.pbda@gmail.com","author_website":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/corinne-bourbeillon\/","author_description":"Journaliste, plongeuse et\u00a0photographe sous-marine, Corinne adore faire des bulles avec les\u00a0poissons\u00a0! La beaut\u00e9 du monde et\u00a0de\u00a0l'oc\u00e9an lui ont inspir\u00e9 ce blog. \r\n\r\n<a href=\"\/corinne-bourbeillon\/\" rel=\"author\">En savoir plus<\/a>","author_facebook":"","author_twitter":"","author_instagram":"","author_role":["administrator"],"author_firstname":"Corinne","author_lastname":"Bourbeillon","user_login":"cbourbeillon","author_avatar":"<img bv-data-src="https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7542464a0f3c6a1baf2af7786ad5764b10f9d60908fb1278a969310cf533aedd?s=200&#038;d=identicon&#038;r=g"  alt='' src="data:image/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2000/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20200%20200'%3E%3C/svg%3E" bv-data-srcset="https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7542464a0f3c6a1baf2af7786ad5764b10f9d60908fb1278a969310cf533aedd?s=400&#038;d=identicon&#038;r=g 2x"  class="avatar avatar-200 photo bv-tag-attr-replace bv-lazyload-tag-img"   height='200' width='200' loading='lazy' decoding='async'\/>","author_avatar_url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7542464a0f3c6a1baf2af7786ad5764b10f9d60908fb1278a969310cf533aedd?s=96&d=identicon&r=g","comment_count":15,"post_likes":0,"post_views":0},"tpgb_post_category":{"category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/voyage-borneo-malaisie-indonesie-2009\/\" alt=\"Born\u00e9o [Malaisie et Indon\u00e9sie] - juillet\u00a02009\"  class=\"category-voyage-borneo-malaisie-indonesie-2009\">Born\u00e9o [Malaisie et Indon\u00e9sie] - juillet\u00a02009<\/a> ","post_tag":"<a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/indonesie\/\" alt=\"Indon\u00e9sie\"  class=\"post_tag-indonesie\">Indon\u00e9sie<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/video\/\" alt=\"Vid\u00e9o\"  class=\"post_tag-video\">Vid\u00e9o<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/insolite\/\" alt=\"Insolite\"  class=\"post_tag-insolite\">Insolite<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/derawan\/\" alt=\"Derawan\"  class=\"post_tag-derawan\">Derawan<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/mariage\/\" alt=\"Mariage\"  class=\"post_tag-mariage\">Mariage<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/borneo-indonesie\/\" alt=\"Born\u00e9o (Indon\u00e9sie)\"  class=\"post_tag-borneo-indonesie\">Born\u00e9o (Indon\u00e9sie)<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/borneo\/\" alt=\"Born\u00e9o\"  class=\"post_tag-borneo\">Born\u00e9o<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/ceremonie\/\" alt=\"C\u00e9r\u00e9monie\"  class=\"post_tag-ceremonie\">C\u00e9r\u00e9monie<\/a> "},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1369","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1369"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1369\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":51099,"href":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1369\/revisions\/51099"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1491"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1369"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1369"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petitesbullesdailleurs.fr\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1369"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}<!-- This website is optimized by Airlift. Learn more: https://airlift.net. Template:. Learn more: https://airlift.net. Template: 69ed78dda013281426162874. Config Timestamp: 2026-04-26 02:30:52 UTC, Cached Timestamp: 2026-04-28 19:12:42 UTC -->